Astrology / Astrology for kids CancerCancer children have a very sensitive nature and a fervent imagination which will follow them throughout their life time and through the crucial childhood years they may find loneliness to be a companion, sometimes an even preferred companion, as cruel words from other children can cut deeply. There is a tendency for this one to be overweight and slow moving which could make him/her a target for classmates to ridicule, thus sending the crab scuttling back into its shell!
Cancer children can be clever and they have a tendency to become deceptive; unless this is caught early in childhood he or she gets so good at the art of deception that they often wind up deceiving themselves. The Cancer child is a very loving individual and it takes many expressions of love on the part of parents for this little one to feel secure. Self-pity and martyrdom should be tactfully discouraged and the child taught to laugh at those tendencies in self.
The chest and lungs can be a problem for young (and older) Cancerians and should a cold or other chest type infection develop, the child should be monitored closely and given professional treatment at the onset, so the condition does not "set In" and become chronic.
A wise parent will begin to work on the above negatives immediately. The Children are never too young or too old to start training, or retraining, their actions.
Compatibility
The most compatible Mother for Cancer is Pisces or Cancer.
The most compatible Father for Cancer is Scorpio or Taurus.
I will not list here the most incompatible sign for parents and children as I feel this may very well color someones thinking and cause tension where there should be none, or create an excuse for lack of parenting. It does not matter what sign you or your child were born under, if you keep love and caring in the equation the sum total will usually come out correct.
If you do not fit in one of those compatible categories it becomes readily apparent where some of the unrest between you and your child lies, (if indeed there is any). If you do fall into the non-compatible area and you get along perfectly well with your child, then the readings you have done should show similarities in both of your charts that would compensate for the lack in those that most fit the "generalized" category.
Knowing all of these things about you and about your child will enable you to pinpoint some of these parent/child problems and begin to overcome them in yourself first, then you will naturally be able to guide your child with love and a better understanding throughout life. |